Hi There!
So I haven’t been on here much, simply because not alot has been happening, not much to report.
I get up, watch some tv, go to work, come home, watch some tv, go to bed and repeat.
Christmas was nice my girls were home and we had a nice dinner together.
Big C has adjusted to her first job and I am so proud of her, work has increased my hours so although I don’t have all the rent for Jan 1st ($200 short),,we will be all caught up by the 10th of the month and with her also working we will get all caught up in rent and on the bills.
I can’t stress anymore,,,so what if the rent is late, what’s the worst that can happen?? They can’t evict me if money is paid within 2 weeks. I will simply explain the situation and that we now have a 2 person income coming in.
I feel bad having to have her help me out but alas she is now a adult and being a adult comes with responsibilities and contributing to rent and the bills is part of that.
I have had the last 2 days off and a large majority of the time I have been reading and getting caught up on what my blogging buddies have been up too in their lives.
I spent the morning reading a entire blog from the beginning of it’s time and I have fallen in love with these 2 people. These 2 people found each other years ago in a chat room and fell in love. One lives in the U.S and the other in Australia, life being a dick like it’s known too be thru them a horrible curve ball and they broke up. But after 14 years they have managed to reconnect and write each other love letters on their blog called: The Sir Letters.
I so envy them, I want what they have. Now the question is how to go about having just that? Are they places where you can meet people over the internet,,,do chat rooms even excist anymore?
I encourage you all to go over to The Sir Letters you won’t be disappointed. I promise 🙂
overitblogdotcom 
Dec 28, 2013 @ 21:21:33
You want a Sir with love? I haven’t been to check out that site but I can tell you that real genuine Sir’s with love are few and far between. Actually I think you know this but we all need the reminder sometime. If you can find one? That’s great! But most are Sir with hangups, lies and issues worse than it is worth bearing. Do I sound bitter? Well I guess I am. I thought I’d found my Sir with love this past year but when I flew 12,000 miles around the globe to meet him I discovered that he wasn’t at all who he had said he was. He was wonderfully nice, but it was all a facade, damn it! Not to mention the waste of my money on the airfares. Anyway, I’m putting bitterness aside, but then I think I’ve done my dash on internet romances. If you can find one I will toast a glass to your Sir with Love. Don’t be put off by this bitter, old fool!
Oh, and I think your daughter she pay towards your living expenses. She has to learn that life costs money, even if you’re living with Mum. Don’t feel guilty as it is a good lesson for her to learn. It will help her so much in the future. 🙂
Dec 28, 2013 @ 21:47:30
Oh Cate, i’m sorry you had a crappy year too when it came to men too.
Yes you sound bitter. I still am bitter too from my last relationship as the person used me basically for what money I did have and when it was gone he did not reciprocate by helping out. And in fact turned it on me and made me feel like I was going crazy.
Email me if you need to vent or you want to tell me what happened, how did you meet this person, where was he from?
moabrown2013@live.com
It’s nice to be back in contact with you my friend. xo
Dec 29, 2013 @ 05:46:59
How very sweet you are!
I wish with all my heart that you find your own Sir (with love). Our story hasn’t been all roses and wine either (as you know by reading all our letters).
The journey throws me for a loop at times, and sometimes I still have trouble believing that we’ve reconnected and found each other again.
Again, I thank you kindly. Best wishes.
~ Darling
Dec 30, 2013 @ 04:30:01
Wow… that sounds interesting, I will have to check them out! Have you thought about online dating? Don’t laugh! It can work…
Dec 31, 2013 @ 07:08:57
Hi Overit
I’ve been out of town for a few days and have not caught up on all the blog action. In fairness my Darling has kept me abreast of what has been happening its just I haven’t been here to see it for myself.
Thank you for your kind words about http://thesirletters.wordpress.com/. We are still very much coming to terms with what it all means and have been flummoxed on a number of occasions when a reader has devoted such energy to catching up on our story.
I quite literally must leave and play a gig in about 25 minutes so I have not even had a chance to read your own blog yet. I assure you it will happen early in the New Year. However Darling insisted I come straight to this post so we could get acquainted.
Compliments of the season to you and your loved ones and thanks once again for showing an interest.
Regards
Sir
Feb 11, 2014 @ 04:49:45
You have to try 3single dot com. There you can talk to amateur grils who look like your neighbor. Have fun 🙂