I want a Sir with love please.

Hi There!

So I haven’t been on here much, simply because not alot has been happening, not much to report.

I get up, watch some tv, go to work, come home, watch some tv, go to bed and repeat.

Christmas was nice my girls were home and we had a nice dinner together.

Big C has adjusted to her first job and I am so proud of her, work has increased my hours so although I don’t have all the rent for Jan 1st ($200 short),,we will be all caught up by the 10th of the month and with her also working we will get all caught up in rent and on the bills.

I can’t stress anymore,,,so what if the rent is late, what’s the worst that can happen?? They can’t evict me if money is paid within 2 weeks. I will simply explain the situation and that we now have a 2 person income coming in.

I feel bad having to have her help me out but alas she is now a adult and being a adult comes with responsibilities and contributing to rent and the bills is part of that.

I have had the last 2 days off and a large majority of the time I have been reading and getting caught up on what my blogging buddies have been up too in their lives.

I spent the morning reading a entire blog from the beginning of it’s time and I have fallen in love with these 2 people. These 2 people found each other years ago in a chat room and fell in love. One lives in the U.S and the other in Australia, life being a dick like it’s known too be thru them a horrible curve ball and they broke up. But after 14 years they have managed to reconnect and write each other love letters on their blog called: The Sir Letters.

I so envy them, I want what they have. Now the question is how to go about having just that? Are they places where you can meet people over the internet,,,do chat rooms even excist anymore?

I encourage you all to go over to The Sir Letters you won’t be disappointed. I promise 🙂

Good News Sunday :)

Don’t have much this weeks folks,,,just that I just have 6 more sleeps till I move!!!!

So because not much happened this week, I thought I would post a video of my kitteh that always sleeps with her forehead pressed against something. Last night it was me she had to have her forehead on, she was soooo dead asleep I kept shaking and shaking her and she wouldn’t get up.


So precious!!!

Good news Sunday :)

Good morning everyone!

Did you enjoy that extra hour of sleep last night? I sure did, I woke up to a sunny but cold morning it’s -7 here in my neck of the woods.

I’ve been a negative Nelly lately, so this morning I want to be a sunshine Sally and share about good things in my life.

1. I found a couch on Kijiji, the old owner is a nice guy who is willing to hold onto it in his garage until my moving day and he will even deliver it to me.

couch 2

That’s it there not bad for $300, I plan to go to the thrift store and buy some more big comfy pillows for it. I usually don’t like these type of couches but my daughter does, it was in my price range and I will slowly save up and get exactly what I want later.

2. Yesterday, while reading other blogs one particular one stood out by Fish of Gold called The Best of Thrift (go check it out,,she’s got some neato stuff). I have purchased some new things for the apartment, like pots and pans, kitchen towels, cleaning stuff and some cooking utensils. I need lamps, window coverings, coffee, end tables etc. I’ve decided to go to my new cities thrift shops to get these items thanks for the tips FOG!

3. I have such good friends both online thru the WP community and in real life. I’m disappointed that the woman that I “thought” was my best friend, has not offered any help or even a shoulder to cry on. I guess it’s because she has such good things going on in her life (newly engaged, new home etc.), oh well lesson learned.

I met a new friend when I started this latest course, she has been a great friend, a shoulder to cry on, a good listener and has given me a kick in the ass as well. She let it slip out last week that she has bought me some stuff for my apartment,,,I am so grateful and thankful for her as I know she struggles to keep her family afloat. My new apartment is only a few blocks from her home, I look forward to spending more free time with her.

4. I plan to spend a nice Sunday with my girls, younger C has a hockey game at noon, and when we get back I’m going to spend sometime outside raking leaves, maybe walk their dog. I need to get more fresh air, Vitamin D and exercise, I am determined to not get into a depressed funk. This evening maybe pop some popcorn watch a movie or if a hockey game is on yell at the tv screen.

5. OH YA, I almost forgot,,,,,I have lost 9lbs since I left the NARC!!  I’m feeling better about my self, my self esteem is coming back and I feel my sarcastic funny old self re emerging!

Well that’s my good news post for this Sunday morning,,what’s your good news today?